They don’t make ’em like Cher anymore. The superdiva, and queen of all gay icons, has been able to successfully pull off singing and acting throughout her nearly 50-year career – and she does both in Burlesque, her long-awaited return to the big screen out Nov. 24. Cher’s role as Tess, an L.A. club owner who gives a small-town girl (Christina Aguilera in her acting debut) a shot at fulfilling her dream as a singer, is the Oscar winner’s first major part since Tea with Mussolini over a decade ago.
“Tess is a character who, in the face of great adversity, manages to pull herself up by her bootstraps and rise like a phoenix – and that is Cher,” says writer-director Steven Antin, who nabbed the actress for his big-budget film debut.
Breaking from her Las Vegas show at Caesars Palace, which closes in February after three years, Cher coolly strutted into a suite at the Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills, Calif., with a big smirk and an off-the-shoulder sequined shirt – proof that the legend’s not letting her 64 years get in the way of sustaining her sexiness.
Sitting in was Stanley Tucci, who plays her gay assistant and pal (much like the actor did in The Devil Wears Prada, alongside Meryl Streep). The two stars laughed a lot over the dirty texts they shared and the scenes they shot together. Cher also talked about her indecisiveness over doing Burlesque, why gay men adore her, and shooting an “It Gets Better” video with daughter-turned-son Chaz Bono.
There’s no question that this is an incredibly gay movie.
Cher: (Laughs) One guy said, “This is gay Fantasia!”
How does this rank among the gayest things you have done in your career?
Cher: Not even anywhere! It doesn’t even rank. I don’t think of it as a gay film, but of course gay guys love musicals. And it’s fun! Gay guys like to have fun, and so I think that’s what it is.
Do they, Stanley?
Stanley Tucci: How would I know? (Sarcasm)
Cher: He’s just an actor!
You’ve played gay now for Cher and Meryl Streep. Who’s the better boss?
ST: (Points to Cher) Well, she’s much nicer.
Cher: That’s right – Meryl was horrible! (Both laugh)
Gay men have always been a big part of your career. Can you reflect on that?
Cher: I’ve said this many times, but I think gay men either love you or they don’t even notice you’re alive on the planet. And if they do love you they kind of stick with you through thick and through thin, even when you’re not popular. They recognize kindred spirits that don’t really fit into society, either. And, of course, there’s sequins.
Cher, we haven’t seen you onscreen in a long time. What about Burlesque drew you back?
Cher: You know, I just wanted to sing. I wanted to sing in a film. It was my heart’s desire from the time I was about 4, so that’s what I wanted to do. I didn’t want the film (at first); this was a process. I thought that (Tess) could be a good role. It wasn’t exactly what I wanted in the beginning, but she did turn out to be who I thought she should be.
What do you love about Tess?
Cher: She’s my kind of girl. I love that she’s working really hard and she’s not getting anyplace but she’s not giving up. I love the relationship she has with all the (burlesque) girls and with him (Tucci).
She’s a very likable character, so it’s not like you’re taking a big risk. In the beginning she was so not likable, and I just kept saying, “She’s just complaining and she’s angry with the girls and yelling at them all the time.” I just thought somebody like this would’ve just sold the club.
One of Tess’ best moments is the musical number “You Haven’t Seen the Last of Me.” How do you personally identify with that song?
Cher: Stanley and I were talking about this. If you’ve been in this business, you know what being down is, and if you keep going then you know what struggling through down means.
Many have tried to transition from pop diva to actress, and many have failed – but you were one who’s done it spectacularly. What advice did you have for Christina?
ST: It’s not going to work for Christina. We’ve discussed this, and Christina knows it. (Laughs)
Cher: (Laughs) I think a couple of things had to happen for her to feel comfortable with me, because she didn’t know me. We met a week before (filming began), and she had to realize that I was going to be there to support her and not do any kind of weird actress crap. I really saw as we went on, our scenes together just got better and better. I think she really has the talent to keep going.
I would’ve never done this (as my first film). The first thing that was on film (in my acting career) was an ensemble piece, but the first thing that was a film (1983’s Silkwood), I had no idea what I was doing and I was holding (Meryl Streep’s) hand through it.
How do you think your performance playing gay in Silkwood stands up to gay characters now?
Cher: I don’t think you “play gay.”
ST: You don’t.
Cher: I didn’t. If you look at her, she was just a person, and you just play a person. I think for Stanley it was more of a stretch, but the truth is we giggle like (we did in) that first scene all the time. He makes me laugh hysterically, and I just don’t think you play that. (Looks at Tucci) I don’t think in The Lovely Bones you played a murderer; you played a person.
How was it for you and Stanley to connect as characters?
Cher: We don’t get along to this day! (Laughs)
ST: It was awful; they’re paying me for these interviews. (Laughs) It was great. I was very nervous to meet Cher, there’s no doubt about it. But once we started working, we got along very well and we had a great time. In fact, they had to wrangle us in to keep us from laughing all the time.
Did you improvise while filming?
Cher: There’s that part where we’re at the rack hanging clothes and at the end he grabs me with his legs – that was so not expected! (Laughs)
ST: (Laughs) No one would actually write that in the script.
Cher: I remember when I opened the rack and he looked at me, I just started laughing hysterically. That wasn’t in (the movie). We would go off on our little tangents. It was fun for us and I think when you’re having fun on the screen, people get it.
Some of the best scenes in the film are the ones you both share. What was it like off-screen?
ST: What you saw onscreen is exactly what was happening off-screen, and I’m not kidding. Whatever that relationship was is the relationship that this is.
Cher: He makes me laugh hysterically, and I just make him roll his eyes and smile. That’s the truth. (Both laugh)
ST: It’s true, because she’s really filthy.
Cher: No, it’s not true! I swear!
ST: I’m going to show you a text... (Laughs)
Cher: We do have several texts that I hope never see the light of day.
Cher, did you get to wear any Bob Mackie?
Cher: One (for the number) “Welcome to Burlesque.” That was done specially for the film; I just don’t happen to have those things (in my closet). I have a lot. In my auction I gave the ones I didn’t really love away, but the ones I love, I’m going to keep them until they fall apart.
You wore something to the MTV Video Music Awards this year that was very similar to the outfit in the “If I Could Turn Back Time” video. Was that planned?
Cher: I wear that every night (laughs). I just had it and I didn’t have time to think of an outfit and thought it would be fun.
What’s next for you?
Cher: There’s an album, but I haven’t been able to get to it. That’s going to be the next thing I really want to do – unless a movie with Stanley comes up.
You also voice a character in 2011’s animated film Zookeeper.
Cher: Yeah, I play a lioness: Sylvester Stallone’s wife (laughs). It’s not a big part; it was my first voiceover and it was really great. That’s how they cornered me, because when I came out – I had been there for hours and I was really tired and I walked out the door – there was Steven (Antin, the Burlesque director) and Clint (Culpepper, president of Screen Gems). Clint got down on one knee and said, “You have to come to the office!” And so I did.
Clint said you tried to pull out of the film. Was that only because of the character?
Cher: Yeah. In life I don’t know what I want nearly as much as what I want in a character. I complained a lot about the hours – we had many 16-hour days in heels. It was hard.
Are there plans to film a video with Chaz for the “It Gets Better” campaign directed toward LGBT youth?
Cher: We haven’t talked about it. She’s been... she, I do this all the time; the pronouns are just fucked. He’s doing the documentary and this book, so that’s been taking up all the time.
Looking back at your early career, what advice would you give yourself?
Cher: Shut my mouth! (Laughs)
ST: You would shut your mouth?
Cher: Yeah, I would shut my mouth a lot more than I have in my life. I wouldn’t have done anything different because you just do what you do, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. You just have to keep going. Mistakes are just mistakes.
WhistlePig and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Wind Tunnel-Trialed Whiskey Is a Ryed You Don’t Want to Miss
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The third iteration in WhistlePig’s Single Barrel PiggyBack Legends Series, the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is bottled at 96.77 proof, a nod to Valtteri Bottas’ racing number, 77, and the precision of racing. Inspired by Zhou Guanyu, the first Chinese F1 driver, this Rye Whiskey is finished with lychee and oolong tea. Herbal and floral notes of the oolong tea complement the herbaceous notes of WhistlePig’s signature PiggyBack 100% Rye, rounded out with a juicy tropical fruit finish and a touch of spice.
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When I started medical transition at 20 years old, it was very difficult to get the care I needed for hormone replacement therapy because there are very few providers trained in starting hormones for trans people, even though it’s very similar to the hormones that we prescribe to women in menopause or cisgender men with low testosterone.
I hope more providers get trained in LGBTQ+ healthcare, so they can support patients along their individual gender journey, and provide the info needed to make informed decisions about their body. I’ve personally seen my trans patients find hope and experience a better quality of life through hormone replacement therapy.
If you don’t have a primary care physician who specializes in LGBTQ+ care in your community, you may need to educate yourself (and your provider). But, before you seek such therapy, here are five things you should know!
- Monitor closely. At Spectrum Medical Care Center, we screen patients for certain risks before starting anyone on hormones. We frequently monitor patients in the first year to ensure there are no adverse reactions and lab results are within safe ranges. Follow-up care is also important to assess your comfort with the transition as well as the social impact and social support you’re experiencing.
- Some changes are permanent, some temporary. For transmasculine individuals going on testosterone, they’ll experience these permanent changes: deepened voice, clitoral enlargement (also known as bottom growth), more body, facial hair, and male pattern baldness. Reversible changes include cessation of menses, increased muscle mass and strength, body fat redistribution, and skin oiliness or acne. For those going on estrogen therapy, the most permanent change is breast growth. Feminizing hormone therapy can also cause atrophy (shrinkage) of the genitals and loss of erectile function that may not be reversible. Estrogen will thin body hair, soften the skin, can increase scalp hair, and decrease muscle mass and strength, all of which are reversible.
- You can’t pick and choose results. Unfortunately, you can’t pick and choose the physical changes you want, which may feel challenging. Some of my patients will say, ‘Okay, ‘I’ve seen the permanent changes I want, and I don’t want it to go any further,’ and so at that point, we stop therapy. Low-dose hormone therapy can slow down the rate of changes, allowing for a more gradual physical transition. We counsel patients in advance about the common changes, and it’s up to the individual as to when they’d like to scale back and determine whether some benefits are worth the potential risks.
- Be aware of risks. Like any medical treatment, there are potential risks involved. Some risks with testosterone therapy include increased red blood cell mass, acne, hypertension, sleep apnea, weight gain, and dyslipidemia (increases the chance of clogged arteries). Cardiovascular disease is likely increased with additional risk factors for testosterone and estrogen therapy. Transfeminine patients going on estrogen therapy may experience weight gain, thromboembolic disease (when a blood clot breaks off and blocks another blood vessel), and a high level of triglycerides in the blood.
Descanso Resort, Palm Springs' premier destination for gay men, just received Tripadvisor's highest honor, a Travelers' Choice "Best of the Best" award for 2023. Based on guests' reviews and ratings, fewer than 1% of Tripadvisor's 8 million listings around the world receive the coveted "Best of the Best" designation. Descanso ranked 12th in the top 25 small inns and hotels category in the United States. Quite an accomplishment!
Open less than two years, Descanso Resort offers gay men a relaxing and luxurious boutique hotel experience just minutes away from Palm Springs' buzziest restaurants, nightclubs, and shopping. Descanso has quickly established itself as a top destination for sophisticated gay travelers, earning hundreds of 5-star guest reviews and consistently ranking in Trapadvisor's top positions alongside brother properties Santiago Resort and Twin Palms Resort.
"Our entire team is honored to be named Best of the Best. To be the only gay men's resort recognized in the Top 1% is incredibly humbling," said Kent Taylor, General Manager at Descanso. "We appreciate Tripadvisor and we're grateful to all our guests who gave us such high marks and reviews to help us reach this achievement."
“Ranking among the Best of the Best demonstrates that you have provided exemplary experiences to those who maZer most: your guests,” said John Boris, Chief Growth Officer at Tripadvisor. “With changing expectations, continued labor shortages, and rising costs, this is no easy feat, and I am con6nually impressed with the hospitality industry’s resilience and ability to adapt.”
Santiago Resort was once again honored by Tripadvisor with a 2023 Travelers’ Choice award, placing it among the top 10% of travelers’ top reviewed des6na6ons. Twin Palms will become eligible for ranking in 2024.
Check out all the reviews, and discover more about Descanso Resort on Tripadvisor here. We have an excellent library of resort imagery available to accompany editorial and additional resources on our press page. Please contact Descanso Resort’s General Manager, Kent Taylor, at kent@descansoresort.com for further information.
About Descanso Resort
Inspired by Palm Springs’ history as a des6na6on for Hollywood stars to unwind in privacy, Descanso offers guests a casual yet modern take on the legendary style of that 6me. Created by the same hospitality team that revitalized Palm Springs’ much-loved San6ago Resort and recently launched the all-new Twin Palms Resort, the Descanso property opened in 2022 featuring 15 spacious guest rooms with custom-designed furniture, dreamy King-size beds, and luxe details. Ameni6es include continental breakfast, poolside lunch, welcome snack basket, and lots of special touches. For guests who need to stay connected, the entire property is equipped with blazing-fast Wi-Fi. Mul6-speed bikes are available for exploring the surrounding midcentury neighborhoods and public art installations. Like the Hollywood stars before them, guests at Descanso are encouraged to unwind, relax, and rest in style.
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Travelers across the globe use the Tripadvisor site and app to discover where to stay, what to do and where to eat based on guidance from those who have been there before. With more than 1 billion reviews and opinions of nearly 8 million businesses, travelers turn to Tripadvisor to find deals on accommodations, book experiences, reserve tables at delicious restaurants and discover great places nearby.