Kansas City’s community of gay bars has a legacy of giving back to the community during the holidays. One of the bigger annual fundraising events is the Angel Tree Fund for children at Missie B’s, the Midtown bar owned by the well-known gay nightclub entrepreneur Michael Burnes.
Jan Allen, manager at Missie B’s, said, “I fill out a little paper angel with their name and ages and all that, and then the customers take the angels off the tree to go out and get something for them, and generally it’s clothes. All of the angels were taken by customers and some were not taken back.”
Allen reported that the Angel Tree Fund raised $4,071, including $500 that was left from 2008.
“We go out and buy at least one item for every kid. We make sure everybody gets something,” said Allen. “There were 54 kids this year.”
“We spent a little more this year because about half of the angels that were adopted this year did not come back, so we had to go out and buy presents for those kids.
The fundraising begins on the evening of Thanksgiving during the bar’s annual Bartenders Revue show. Bartenders made up in drag entertain the crowd, and the bartender
on stage, other entertainers and the bartenders on duty donate their tips to the Angel Tree Fund. Customers also made other cash donations, and Bob Magaha raised $120 by once again donning his Santa Claus outfit and posing with patrons for pictures taken by professional photographer Janet Ryan, who donates her service. Santa Bob also delivered the presents to the kids at the Southwest Family Health Clinic, along with the staff of Missie B’s.
The children are selected by the receptionist, Evie Tygart, at the clinic, which is run by Dr. Sharon Lee. Allen said they’ve had to limit the number of children.
“Last year we did 36, I think, and prior years we’ve done as many as 116, but that was just too out of control.”
Allen said there was also a new program this year for a new Quindaro clinic that Lee has opened. “So we had some money left, and we still have money left, but we had enough that we bought Christmas dinner for eight different families at the Quindaro clinic. We got them all hams, instant mashed potatoes, cake mixes and nonperishables that they could fix for Christmas dinner.”
Although the bar has kept the Angel Tree Fund tradition, other things at Missie B’s are changing.
For years, people have joked that Burnes would change the décor whenever he got bored and wanted a change. The bar has greatly expanded its space in its 15 years of operation. The latest change is the complete renovation of the upstairs bar. The dance floor was greatly enlarged and the color scheme was changed to lighter colors and less of the darker leather bar look.
The space has been greatly opened up, even though there are still two bars with three bartender stations. They’re also planning on doing some painting and recarpeting of the rest of the bar, but Allen said there are no other major renovations planned.
“We’re happy right now with what Dirty Dorothy is doing. We may make some minor changes, but as far as the lineup, probably not.” Allen said they’re looking into bringing in people from time to time for circuit party entertainment upstairs, or to continue doing live shows with singers or comedians like the Eddie Sarfaty event in October.
“We’re moving more toward a video format. In fact, DJ Jerry Griffith has proposed what he calls ‘The Vicious Video Throwdown.’… The customers would recreate their favorite music video, and we would have a contest with a cash prize that is as of yet undecided.
“We’re also trying to plan one major party, one big event, every month,” she said. The recent reunion show on Dec. 27 (see photos on page 13) with Loretta Martin, Kim Kircher, Melody Lines, Martin’s own son and others was a big hit.
“I think they would like to come back and do that type of show occasionally,” Allen said. “We’re trying to think of new and different things.”
Like so many other businesses, Allen said, Missie B’s has been using Facebook much more these days.
For example, they’ve been offering discounts on the customer’s first drink of the night by mentioning the Facebook word of the day.
The Bootleggers Club still meets upstairs. Allen said, “People that have any Bootlegger card or even the old Dixie Belle dog tags, or if they have an old ‘whip it out’ card, we’d like them to come in and show it – they don’t have to surrender it – to pick up their new Bootlegger card.” Membership is free.
They’re even considering hosting Western nights on the dance floor upstairs. “We are anticipating doing a country-western night upstairs, possibly on a Wednesday or Thursday night,” she said.
Missie B’s is one of the many gay bars who have a show at the Gay Pride festival in June. Allen said that the first planning meeting for the bar’s show will be this month.
WhistlePig and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Wind Tunnel-Trialed Whiskey Is a Ryed You Don’t Want to Miss
SHOREHAM, VT (September 13, 2023) — WhistlePig Whiskey, the leaders in independent craft whiskey, and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake are waving the checkered flag on a legend-worthy release that’s taking whiskey to G-Force levels. The Limited Edition PiggyBack Legends Series: Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is a high Rye Whiskey selected by the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake drivers, with barrels trialed in their wind tunnel to ensure a thrilling taste in every sip.
The third iteration in WhistlePig’s Single Barrel PiggyBack Legends Series, the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is bottled at 96.77 proof, a nod to Valtteri Bottas’ racing number, 77, and the precision of racing. Inspired by Zhou Guanyu, the first Chinese F1 driver, this Rye Whiskey is finished with lychee and oolong tea. Herbal and floral notes of the oolong tea complement the herbaceous notes of WhistlePig’s signature PiggyBack 100% Rye, rounded out with a juicy tropical fruit finish and a touch of spice.
Like Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake’s signature C43 racing vehicles, trial barrels were tested in the team’s wind tunnel in Switzerland before hitting the track. Select barrels then endured varying levels of G-Forces at the WhistlePig farm and distillery for the finishing touch, accelerating the interaction between the whiskey and the wood, staying true to the physical nature of Formula 1.
“Partnering with WhistlePig has been a very exciting experience. Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake is dedicated to being the best on the track, and the crew at WhistlePig is fearless in their pursuit to create the best whiskey out there,” said Valtteri Bottas, Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake’s driver. “We’re really looking forward to fans tasting our custom Rye Whiskey and raising a glass to the rookies, veterans, legends and the exhilarating sport of F1.”
"Joining forces with WhistlePig to release a Single Barrel Rye Whiskey that represents my culture and team has been an honor,” said Zhou Guanyu, Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake’s driver. “Formula 1 brings together fearless, thrill-seeking motorsports professionals, and WhistlePig has a shared passion for boundary-pushing innovation. Together, we’ve selected something alarmingly good for fans to enjoy this season when the cars are not on track.”
The Limited Edition Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel will be available for purchase online starting around September 13 for $49.99 MSRP per 750ml bottle and sold in select stores across the U.S. Consumers can win VIP merchandise by scanning the QR code on the back of each bottle.
"We're taking our third Legends Series release on a ryed like never before,” said Meghan Ireland, WhistlePig Head Blender. "Our experiments with dynamic aging went full throttle during finishing trials at the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake wind tunnel, in turn inspiring new ways to expose barrels to G-forces back at the WhistlePig Farm. The herbal and floral notes of the lychee and tea barrel selected with the team create a new, podium-topping experience for PiggyBack Rye."
Fans and collectors have followed WhistlePig PiggyBack Legends Series, celebrating those who give 100% in the name of greatness, since its launch in March 2022 with Major League Baseball Hall of Famer, David Ortiz (“Big Papi”), followed by Country Music Duo Brothers Osborne in November 2022.
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Located off the grid on a 500-acre Vermont farm, WhistlePig Whiskey is crafted by a new generation of whiskey distillers and blenders driven to reinvent and unlock the flavor of Rye whiskey. Through their rebellious pursuit of experimenting and pushing boundaries in the industry, WhistlePig has become the leading independent craft whiskey brand for innovation. WhistlePig is committed to becoming the best whiskey on and for the planet, starting with its locally sourced ingredients and sustainable supply chain and distilling process. For more information, head to whistlepigwhiskey.com.
When I started medical transition at 20 years old, it was very difficult to get the care I needed for hormone replacement therapy because there are very few providers trained in starting hormones for trans people, even though it’s very similar to the hormones that we prescribe to women in menopause or cisgender men with low testosterone.
I hope more providers get trained in LGBTQ+ healthcare, so they can support patients along their individual gender journey, and provide the info needed to make informed decisions about their body. I’ve personally seen my trans patients find hope and experience a better quality of life through hormone replacement therapy.
If you don’t have a primary care physician who specializes in LGBTQ+ care in your community, you may need to educate yourself (and your provider). But, before you seek such therapy, here are five things you should know!
- Monitor closely. At Spectrum Medical Care Center, we screen patients for certain risks before starting anyone on hormones. We frequently monitor patients in the first year to ensure there are no adverse reactions and lab results are within safe ranges. Follow-up care is also important to assess your comfort with the transition as well as the social impact and social support you’re experiencing.
- Some changes are permanent, some temporary. For transmasculine individuals going on testosterone, they’ll experience these permanent changes: deepened voice, clitoral enlargement (also known as bottom growth), more body, facial hair, and male pattern baldness. Reversible changes include cessation of menses, increased muscle mass and strength, body fat redistribution, and skin oiliness or acne. For those going on estrogen therapy, the most permanent change is breast growth. Feminizing hormone therapy can also cause atrophy (shrinkage) of the genitals and loss of erectile function that may not be reversible. Estrogen will thin body hair, soften the skin, can increase scalp hair, and decrease muscle mass and strength, all of which are reversible.
- You can’t pick and choose results. Unfortunately, you can’t pick and choose the physical changes you want, which may feel challenging. Some of my patients will say, ‘Okay, ‘I’ve seen the permanent changes I want, and I don’t want it to go any further,’ and so at that point, we stop therapy. Low-dose hormone therapy can slow down the rate of changes, allowing for a more gradual physical transition. We counsel patients in advance about the common changes, and it’s up to the individual as to when they’d like to scale back and determine whether some benefits are worth the potential risks.
- Be aware of risks. Like any medical treatment, there are potential risks involved. Some risks with testosterone therapy include increased red blood cell mass, acne, hypertension, sleep apnea, weight gain, and dyslipidemia (increases the chance of clogged arteries). Cardiovascular disease is likely increased with additional risk factors for testosterone and estrogen therapy. Transfeminine patients going on estrogen therapy may experience weight gain, thromboembolic disease (when a blood clot breaks off and blocks another blood vessel), and a high level of triglycerides in the blood.
Descanso Resort, Palm Springs' premier destination for gay men, just received Tripadvisor's highest honor, a Travelers' Choice "Best of the Best" award for 2023. Based on guests' reviews and ratings, fewer than 1% of Tripadvisor's 8 million listings around the world receive the coveted "Best of the Best" designation. Descanso ranked 12th in the top 25 small inns and hotels category in the United States. Quite an accomplishment!
Open less than two years, Descanso Resort offers gay men a relaxing and luxurious boutique hotel experience just minutes away from Palm Springs' buzziest restaurants, nightclubs, and shopping. Descanso has quickly established itself as a top destination for sophisticated gay travelers, earning hundreds of 5-star guest reviews and consistently ranking in Trapadvisor's top positions alongside brother properties Santiago Resort and Twin Palms Resort.
"Our entire team is honored to be named Best of the Best. To be the only gay men's resort recognized in the Top 1% is incredibly humbling," said Kent Taylor, General Manager at Descanso. "We appreciate Tripadvisor and we're grateful to all our guests who gave us such high marks and reviews to help us reach this achievement."
“Ranking among the Best of the Best demonstrates that you have provided exemplary experiences to those who maZer most: your guests,” said John Boris, Chief Growth Officer at Tripadvisor. “With changing expectations, continued labor shortages, and rising costs, this is no easy feat, and I am con6nually impressed with the hospitality industry’s resilience and ability to adapt.”
Santiago Resort was once again honored by Tripadvisor with a 2023 Travelers’ Choice award, placing it among the top 10% of travelers’ top reviewed des6na6ons. Twin Palms will become eligible for ranking in 2024.
Check out all the reviews, and discover more about Descanso Resort on Tripadvisor here. We have an excellent library of resort imagery available to accompany editorial and additional resources on our press page. Please contact Descanso Resort’s General Manager, Kent Taylor, at kent@descansoresort.com for further information.
About Descanso Resort
Inspired by Palm Springs’ history as a des6na6on for Hollywood stars to unwind in privacy, Descanso offers guests a casual yet modern take on the legendary style of that 6me. Created by the same hospitality team that revitalized Palm Springs’ much-loved San6ago Resort and recently launched the all-new Twin Palms Resort, the Descanso property opened in 2022 featuring 15 spacious guest rooms with custom-designed furniture, dreamy King-size beds, and luxe details. Ameni6es include continental breakfast, poolside lunch, welcome snack basket, and lots of special touches. For guests who need to stay connected, the entire property is equipped with blazing-fast Wi-Fi. Mul6-speed bikes are available for exploring the surrounding midcentury neighborhoods and public art installations. Like the Hollywood stars before them, guests at Descanso are encouraged to unwind, relax, and rest in style.
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