Marvin Baker sang his first church solo in 1929, when he was a young boy. Now he’s 89, and his personal faith is still an integral part of his life. He has worked as an educator, author and pastor, among other professions.
Baker sees bringing LGBT people together for fellowship as a very important component in reconciliation.
Since 2010, Baker has moderated a local Gay Christian Fellowship group that meets on Wednesdays in Johnson County, Kan., providing fellowship and discussion time for LGBT folks and those who support them.
Baker’s husband, Paul Trittin, 68, has worked alongside him for 13½ years. They were married in Iowa in July 2013.
Baker was born in Kokomo, Ind., and much of his formal education took place within his home state. He earned his doctorate in elementary education from Ball State University in Muncie and did post-doctoral work at Indiana University. In addition, he has studied English and music at Indiana Wesleyan University and religion at Azusa Pacific University in California.
Baker has retired from working as an educator, but has been involved in several post-retirement projects. His accomplishments include writing and editing books, composing gospel songs and creating musicals.
Baker lost his wife in January 2001. After her death, Baker and Trittin formed the consulting firm Baker Trittin Concepts. Two years later, that firm became Baker Trittin Press. Trittin served as president of the small publishing house and was also an illustrator. Baker was the editor-in-chief.
Trittin, a California native, was stationed in Kansas during the Vietnam era and spent many years in Christian publishing. Part of his overseas experiences involved mission work connected to the Assemblies of God Church at the International Correspondence Institute in Brussels, Belgium. Trittin lived in the Kansas City area in the 1980s and divorced his wife before moving to Michigan with Baker in 2001. Both men said their wives knew about their sexuality before their marriages.
In December 2001, Baker also lost his daughter, Vangie. A few years earlier, with her father’s encouragement, Vangie had been working on writing the New Testament in language that tweens (8- to 12-year-olds) would readily comprehend. Her first focus was the work traditionally attributed to Mark the Evangelist.
After Vangie’s death, Trittin drove Baker to North Carolina for her funeral. During the drive home, Baker shared Vangie’s idea with Trittin and gave him the manuscript to read. Trittin suggested that Baker restart the work and write it from a grandfather’s perspective, which he did as a tribute to his daughter. Baker Trittin Press published Mark’s Story. Grouped with other adaptations for tweens, the anthology was called the Gospel Storyteller Series.
Baker has written and lectured on the creative child, and creativity is a recurring element in his work. Trittin, who has worked as a commissioned artist, also embraces creativity. When the two moved to St. Joseph, Mo., a few years back, they found the raw materials for creating a new kind of fellowship.
The couple rented the church parsonage of Zion United Church of Christ (UCC) in downtown St. Joe. The parsonage backed right up to the church building, so naturally they became involved with the congregation. One day, as Trittin was doing some painting and Baker was looking on, two young women strolled up and stopped to pet a nearby dog.
When Baker offered to show them the church, one woman replied, “I’m gay.” She boldly entered the sanctuary, knelt and prayed, then returned to the group with a swagger of defiant accomplishment.
“We are, too,” said Trittin. And with that unexpected reply, her energy for bluster turned to interest in Bible study.
The church formed a study and fellowship group called the Gay Christian Fellowship (now Gay-Straight Christian Fellowship). Baker had been involved with many denominations over the years, but he was not an ordained UCC minister. Because he was interested in working with this group, however, UCC granted him a special designation as minister to the gays.
In 2010, Zion UCC had a big day of induction. Baker oversaw several baptisms. Some of these were done by sprinkling, but others, by request, were done by immersion. The nearby First Christian Church lent Zion its baptistry for this purpose.
Some readers may recognize Zion UCC’s Gay-Straight Christian Fellowship as the group that hosted St. Joseph’s first gay pride event in 2013.
In January, Baker and Trittin plan to attend the annual conference of the Gay Christian Network (GCN).
Executive director Justin Lee founded this nonprofit organization in 2001, and its stated mission is sharing Christ’s light and love for all. GCN works to promote spiritual growth, cultivate safe community, support family and friends, educate and encourage the church and engage the wider LGBT community and the world. The conference theme will be “Together at the Table.”
Baker said the results of an informal survey were announced at last year’s Gay Christian Network conference in Chicago. He recalls that 85 percent of gay people who were polled reported having some church background. He is interested in what happened to that faith.
“My experience in the last five years is that many have left the church, but they may not have left their faith. I like Billy Graham’s daughter’s phrase, believer in exile. She has written, ‘I have found myself living as a “believer in exile,” not running from God, but tired of putting up with those who call themselves by His name, yet behave in an ungodly manner.’”
Baker says that he apologizes for the church because it taught the LGBT community to be deceitful. But he reminds those who have left the church that they are not alone. There is fellowship. And now there is marriage. Things are happening.
Baker and Trittin now live in Overland Park, Kan. They are involved not only with the local Gay Christian Fellowship, but also with the MoKan Comm-UNITY Consortium, the new group planning 2015’s Mid-America Pride in Kansas City. And they recently took the plunge into another creative endeavor by joining the city’s beloved Heartland Men’s Chorus.
When asked what additional advice he would give to LGBT persons seeking to reconnect with their faith, Baker replied:
The memory of the peace and joy you felt when you had faith in God makes it difficult to ignore his invitation to come home. The reluctance to return is heightened by the misinformation given by some who pretended to be the voice of God. The return to faith is linked to forgiving those who hurt you with misinformation. God offers direct access to him; use it. Find other “seekers” and pursue reconciliation and support.
Opportunities to Participate
▪ The Gay Christian Network (gaychristian.net) will host its 2015 conference (Gay Christian Network) Jan. 8-11 at the Oregon Convention Center in Portland.
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WhistlePig and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Wind Tunnel-Trialed Whiskey Is a Ryed You Don’t Want to Miss
SHOREHAM, VT (September 13, 2023) — WhistlePig Whiskey, the leaders in independent craft whiskey, and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake are waving the checkered flag on a legend-worthy release that’s taking whiskey to G-Force levels. The Limited Edition PiggyBack Legends Series: Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is a high Rye Whiskey selected by the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake drivers, with barrels trialed in their wind tunnel to ensure a thrilling taste in every sip.
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When I started medical transition at 20 years old, it was very difficult to get the care I needed for hormone replacement therapy because there are very few providers trained in starting hormones for trans people, even though it’s very similar to the hormones that we prescribe to women in menopause or cisgender men with low testosterone.
I hope more providers get trained in LGBTQ+ healthcare, so they can support patients along their individual gender journey, and provide the info needed to make informed decisions about their body. I’ve personally seen my trans patients find hope and experience a better quality of life through hormone replacement therapy.
If you don’t have a primary care physician who specializes in LGBTQ+ care in your community, you may need to educate yourself (and your provider). But, before you seek such therapy, here are five things you should know!
- Monitor closely. At Spectrum Medical Care Center, we screen patients for certain risks before starting anyone on hormones. We frequently monitor patients in the first year to ensure there are no adverse reactions and lab results are within safe ranges. Follow-up care is also important to assess your comfort with the transition as well as the social impact and social support you’re experiencing.
- Some changes are permanent, some temporary. For transmasculine individuals going on testosterone, they’ll experience these permanent changes: deepened voice, clitoral enlargement (also known as bottom growth), more body, facial hair, and male pattern baldness. Reversible changes include cessation of menses, increased muscle mass and strength, body fat redistribution, and skin oiliness or acne. For those going on estrogen therapy, the most permanent change is breast growth. Feminizing hormone therapy can also cause atrophy (shrinkage) of the genitals and loss of erectile function that may not be reversible. Estrogen will thin body hair, soften the skin, can increase scalp hair, and decrease muscle mass and strength, all of which are reversible.
- You can’t pick and choose results. Unfortunately, you can’t pick and choose the physical changes you want, which may feel challenging. Some of my patients will say, ‘Okay, ‘I’ve seen the permanent changes I want, and I don’t want it to go any further,’ and so at that point, we stop therapy. Low-dose hormone therapy can slow down the rate of changes, allowing for a more gradual physical transition. We counsel patients in advance about the common changes, and it’s up to the individual as to when they’d like to scale back and determine whether some benefits are worth the potential risks.
- Be aware of risks. Like any medical treatment, there are potential risks involved. Some risks with testosterone therapy include increased red blood cell mass, acne, hypertension, sleep apnea, weight gain, and dyslipidemia (increases the chance of clogged arteries). Cardiovascular disease is likely increased with additional risk factors for testosterone and estrogen therapy. Transfeminine patients going on estrogen therapy may experience weight gain, thromboembolic disease (when a blood clot breaks off and blocks another blood vessel), and a high level of triglycerides in the blood.
Descanso Resort, Palm Springs' premier destination for gay men, just received Tripadvisor's highest honor, a Travelers' Choice "Best of the Best" award for 2023. Based on guests' reviews and ratings, fewer than 1% of Tripadvisor's 8 million listings around the world receive the coveted "Best of the Best" designation. Descanso ranked 12th in the top 25 small inns and hotels category in the United States. Quite an accomplishment!
Open less than two years, Descanso Resort offers gay men a relaxing and luxurious boutique hotel experience just minutes away from Palm Springs' buzziest restaurants, nightclubs, and shopping. Descanso has quickly established itself as a top destination for sophisticated gay travelers, earning hundreds of 5-star guest reviews and consistently ranking in Trapadvisor's top positions alongside brother properties Santiago Resort and Twin Palms Resort.
"Our entire team is honored to be named Best of the Best. To be the only gay men's resort recognized in the Top 1% is incredibly humbling," said Kent Taylor, General Manager at Descanso. "We appreciate Tripadvisor and we're grateful to all our guests who gave us such high marks and reviews to help us reach this achievement."
“Ranking among the Best of the Best demonstrates that you have provided exemplary experiences to those who maZer most: your guests,” said John Boris, Chief Growth Officer at Tripadvisor. “With changing expectations, continued labor shortages, and rising costs, this is no easy feat, and I am con6nually impressed with the hospitality industry’s resilience and ability to adapt.”
Santiago Resort was once again honored by Tripadvisor with a 2023 Travelers’ Choice award, placing it among the top 10% of travelers’ top reviewed des6na6ons. Twin Palms will become eligible for ranking in 2024.
Check out all the reviews, and discover more about Descanso Resort on Tripadvisor here. We have an excellent library of resort imagery available to accompany editorial and additional resources on our press page. Please contact Descanso Resort’s General Manager, Kent Taylor, at kent@descansoresort.com for further information.
About Descanso Resort
Inspired by Palm Springs’ history as a des6na6on for Hollywood stars to unwind in privacy, Descanso offers guests a casual yet modern take on the legendary style of that 6me. Created by the same hospitality team that revitalized Palm Springs’ much-loved San6ago Resort and recently launched the all-new Twin Palms Resort, the Descanso property opened in 2022 featuring 15 spacious guest rooms with custom-designed furniture, dreamy King-size beds, and luxe details. Ameni6es include continental breakfast, poolside lunch, welcome snack basket, and lots of special touches. For guests who need to stay connected, the entire property is equipped with blazing-fast Wi-Fi. Mul6-speed bikes are available for exploring the surrounding midcentury neighborhoods and public art installations. Like the Hollywood stars before them, guests at Descanso are encouraged to unwind, relax, and rest in style.
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