HAPPENINGS AROUND TOWN
March came in like a lion, starting at the end of February. First up, the exalted 79th Annual Academy Awards which were telecast on Feb. 25. I found myself buzzing around town, first stopping at the Oscar Night America benefit for Variety the Children’s Charity of Greater Kansas City held at the Barrywoods Theater in the Northland. (Camp was a proud sponsor of this event.) These folks literally rolled out the red carpet complete with red carpet interviews. Ron Mcgee was to be doing the interviews and I sorely missed his wry sense of humor as the replacement fell a little short. I felt just a bit underdressed as many of the men came in tuxedos and ladies came in ball gowns. The appetizers were absolutely to die for, and I found out later that Phoenix Catering was responsible. My hat is off to those guys for a magnificent job. I had barely time to scarf down my third plate of food when it was time to make an appearance at my good friends Paul and Bobby’s Oscar and Assorted Costume Party held at their fabulous home overlooking downtown Kansas City. Paul chose me to answer the first Oscar Trivia Question, which I failed miserably, I might add! Imagine how I felt as an official card-carrying homosexual to have missed a movie trivia question! Before the third acceptance speech, and the next three rounds of appetizer plates, I decided to hit some of the bars for their festivities. I must say that I was a little disappointed in the bar offerings and ended up sitting alone in Missie B’s perched in front of one of the myriad TV monitors scattered throughout the place for the announcement of Best Picture. Oh well, I should have stayed at the party!
March 3 marked the advent of the first annual AIDS Walk Golf Tournament. Of course, yours truly was drafted to be a part of Team GE, a group of crack low handicappers (no, I don’t mean handicapped by crack!). Here is a picture of my team preparing for the tournament. This fundraiser’s concept was hatched by the fun-loving group at Miller High Life Sales headed by John K. and John P. There were seven participating bars, each one providing a miniature golf hole to be played by each of the over 95 participating teams. There were shuttle buses to get the teams from one bar to the next and ample time for libations at each establishment. There were some challenging golf holes but Flo’s was one of the easier ones. Bar Natasha gets my vote as the most challenging hole, and it cost me two drinks just to get up the nerve to finish. This first ever fundraising effort for AIDS Walk garnered more than $13,000 and brought together more than 380 diverse folks from all over the area. My thanks to Michael L. and Josh S. and their wonderful committee members for throwing one hell of a fun event. Kisses and hugs!
March 10 marked the beginning of festivities surrounding St. Patrick’s Day. My friends and I decided to experience the Brookside Parade for the first time with Sharps Bar and Grill as our staging area. I was pleasantly surprised to find room to maneuver from my bar stool to the sidewalk and back quite easily. So therefore it was quite easy to consume way too many Bloody Marys while watching dignitaries, bands and floats making their way down 63rd Street. The weather was crisp, but fine for a parade and as the next picture will attest, my friends and I ran into the Valentine area’s answer to St.Patrick, Uncle Sam and Santa Claus all rolled into one, Bob M. It was there that I received a personal invite to Bob M. and Mike J’s St Patrick’s Dinner held the following night and as usual the food was absolutely to die for. I especially loved the corned beef and cabbage casserole. These guys really know how to put on a “feed bag”! Sadly, I had to miss Kansas City’s big parade as my editor decided to call a meeting at 1 p.m. that afternoon. Oh well, I guess he is not Irish! I did, however manage to catch some of the festivities at Missie B’s after the parade. As you can tell by this next picture, everybody was either wearing green or looking green! I opted to make my way home before the inevitable roadblocks were put in place and none too soon, as I understand there was a roadblock set up directly across the street from Missie B’s on the trafficway.
Just a quick mention of a wonderful experience for me and my friend Sharon that took place the week of March 11, culminating on Sunday, March 18th. The TV show Extreme Makeover was filmed in the Northland near my home, and we were able to witness the arrival of the family as they first saw their new 5,000-square-foot home. What a thrill it was to be among the crowd shouting “move that bus” and then seeing the expressions on the faces of the 12 family members as they saw that wonderful new home. Incidentally, Ty Pennington ain’t too shabby to look at either! Sharon and I both agreed that experience was well worth the three-block uphill trek. For those who might be interested in seeing the show, I believe it will air on Sunday evening, May 13.
One final event to relate to you and then I will retire my keyboard for this time, and that was the tribute thrown on behalf of Mayor Kay Barnes by the LGBT community at Bar Natasha on March 22. What a wonderful send off for a mayor who has done so much for our community since she took office. As you can see by the following pictures and others found in the photo section of Camp, a great time was had by all, including the mayor, shown here with JD and Missie Koontz, owners of Bar Natasha. The Heartaches from the Heartland Men’s Chorus performed and, of course, the beautiful and talented Ron Megee and Missy Koonce acted as MCs for the evening. The evening was capped off by a presentation to the mayor of a replica birthday cake commemorating her coming birthday celebration on March 30. The birthday cake was created to simulate the rainbow cake that she served up on the now-famous Gay Pride cover from last year. To top it off, the AIDS Walk gang sold coffee mugs at the door with that same cover picture. I think that if you go to the AIDS Walk Web site (www.aidswalkkansascity.org.), you can still order a mug for $15, truly a collector’s item.
FUTURE HAPPENINGS AROUND TOWN
There will be two more preliminary benefits for AIDS Walk before the big day on April 28. The first is the Mosaic Project to be held in conjunction with First Friday on April 6th in the Crossroads District. It will be a display of over 1,000 glazed ceramic tiles created by local youth, artists and volunteers. The event takes place starting at 5 p.m. in the Art Lobby of the Chair Building at 2020 Baltimore Ave. The second event is the annual Union Hill House Parties, on April 13, which gives us a chance to drool over beautiful homes and wonderful décor while sloshing down wonderful drinks and unique appetizers. Hopefully you are saving some money for the Good Samaritan Project’s annual Corks and Canvas art, food and wine auction event on April 27 at Boulevard Brewing Company, 2501 Southwest Blvd, in the evening.
My good friends Donald and Ray, who write the Gay Travel Column for Camp, brought to my attention a wonderful new bar that has just opened its doors in Topeka, Kan., 5th Street Pub. The bar is on Kansas Avenue, the main drag of downtown Topeka, in a downstairs setting. I talked with the new owner, Patrick, who by the way, Don and Ray found to be quite attractive, and he told me that the bar will be celebrating its grand opening in the first week of April There will be all sorts of special drinks including the “Tommy Hilfiger.” The week will be topped off on April 8 with a beer bust and special guest appearances by local talent throughout the night. I am looking forward to making a trek up that way in the near future just to see if Don and Ray are correct regarding Patrick’s good looks.
Thanks for hanging in there for what must have seemed an endless dissertation on my meanderings through March. For those many readers (I know there were at least two) who asked why my column did not appear in the last issue of Camp, it was because I thought there would not be enough to put in writing for every other week in a column. I guess I underestimated my own profuseness! So from now on, I will write for every issue even if I have to make up some stuff! See you in two weeks.
WhistlePig and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Wind Tunnel-Trialed Whiskey Is a Ryed You Don’t Want to Miss
SHOREHAM, VT (September 13, 2023) — WhistlePig Whiskey, the leaders in independent craft whiskey, and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake are waving the checkered flag on a legend-worthy release that’s taking whiskey to G-Force levels. The Limited Edition PiggyBack Legends Series: Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is a high Rye Whiskey selected by the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake drivers, with barrels trialed in their wind tunnel to ensure a thrilling taste in every sip.
The third iteration in WhistlePig’s Single Barrel PiggyBack Legends Series, the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is bottled at 96.77 proof, a nod to Valtteri Bottas’ racing number, 77, and the precision of racing. Inspired by Zhou Guanyu, the first Chinese F1 driver, this Rye Whiskey is finished with lychee and oolong tea. Herbal and floral notes of the oolong tea complement the herbaceous notes of WhistlePig’s signature PiggyBack 100% Rye, rounded out with a juicy tropical fruit finish and a touch of spice.
Like Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake’s signature C43 racing vehicles, trial barrels were tested in the team’s wind tunnel in Switzerland before hitting the track. Select barrels then endured varying levels of G-Forces at the WhistlePig farm and distillery for the finishing touch, accelerating the interaction between the whiskey and the wood, staying true to the physical nature of Formula 1.
“Partnering with WhistlePig has been a very exciting experience. Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake is dedicated to being the best on the track, and the crew at WhistlePig is fearless in their pursuit to create the best whiskey out there,” said Valtteri Bottas, Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake’s driver. “We’re really looking forward to fans tasting our custom Rye Whiskey and raising a glass to the rookies, veterans, legends and the exhilarating sport of F1.”
"Joining forces with WhistlePig to release a Single Barrel Rye Whiskey that represents my culture and team has been an honor,” said Zhou Guanyu, Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake’s driver. “Formula 1 brings together fearless, thrill-seeking motorsports professionals, and WhistlePig has a shared passion for boundary-pushing innovation. Together, we’ve selected something alarmingly good for fans to enjoy this season when the cars are not on track.”
The Limited Edition Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel will be available for purchase online starting around September 13 for $49.99 MSRP per 750ml bottle and sold in select stores across the U.S. Consumers can win VIP merchandise by scanning the QR code on the back of each bottle.
"We're taking our third Legends Series release on a ryed like never before,” said Meghan Ireland, WhistlePig Head Blender. "Our experiments with dynamic aging went full throttle during finishing trials at the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake wind tunnel, in turn inspiring new ways to expose barrels to G-forces back at the WhistlePig Farm. The herbal and floral notes of the lychee and tea barrel selected with the team create a new, podium-topping experience for PiggyBack Rye."
Fans and collectors have followed WhistlePig PiggyBack Legends Series, celebrating those who give 100% in the name of greatness, since its launch in March 2022 with Major League Baseball Hall of Famer, David Ortiz (“Big Papi”), followed by Country Music Duo Brothers Osborne in November 2022.
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About WhistlePig Whiskey
Located off the grid on a 500-acre Vermont farm, WhistlePig Whiskey is crafted by a new generation of whiskey distillers and blenders driven to reinvent and unlock the flavor of Rye whiskey. Through their rebellious pursuit of experimenting and pushing boundaries in the industry, WhistlePig has become the leading independent craft whiskey brand for innovation. WhistlePig is committed to becoming the best whiskey on and for the planet, starting with its locally sourced ingredients and sustainable supply chain and distilling process. For more information, head to whistlepigwhiskey.com.
When I started medical transition at 20 years old, it was very difficult to get the care I needed for hormone replacement therapy because there are very few providers trained in starting hormones for trans people, even though it’s very similar to the hormones that we prescribe to women in menopause or cisgender men with low testosterone.
I hope more providers get trained in LGBTQ+ healthcare, so they can support patients along their individual gender journey, and provide the info needed to make informed decisions about their body. I’ve personally seen my trans patients find hope and experience a better quality of life through hormone replacement therapy.
If you don’t have a primary care physician who specializes in LGBTQ+ care in your community, you may need to educate yourself (and your provider). But, before you seek such therapy, here are five things you should know!
- Monitor closely. At Spectrum Medical Care Center, we screen patients for certain risks before starting anyone on hormones. We frequently monitor patients in the first year to ensure there are no adverse reactions and lab results are within safe ranges. Follow-up care is also important to assess your comfort with the transition as well as the social impact and social support you’re experiencing.
- Some changes are permanent, some temporary. For transmasculine individuals going on testosterone, they’ll experience these permanent changes: deepened voice, clitoral enlargement (also known as bottom growth), more body, facial hair, and male pattern baldness. Reversible changes include cessation of menses, increased muscle mass and strength, body fat redistribution, and skin oiliness or acne. For those going on estrogen therapy, the most permanent change is breast growth. Feminizing hormone therapy can also cause atrophy (shrinkage) of the genitals and loss of erectile function that may not be reversible. Estrogen will thin body hair, soften the skin, can increase scalp hair, and decrease muscle mass and strength, all of which are reversible.
- You can’t pick and choose results. Unfortunately, you can’t pick and choose the physical changes you want, which may feel challenging. Some of my patients will say, ‘Okay, ‘I’ve seen the permanent changes I want, and I don’t want it to go any further,’ and so at that point, we stop therapy. Low-dose hormone therapy can slow down the rate of changes, allowing for a more gradual physical transition. We counsel patients in advance about the common changes, and it’s up to the individual as to when they’d like to scale back and determine whether some benefits are worth the potential risks.
- Be aware of risks. Like any medical treatment, there are potential risks involved. Some risks with testosterone therapy include increased red blood cell mass, acne, hypertension, sleep apnea, weight gain, and dyslipidemia (increases the chance of clogged arteries). Cardiovascular disease is likely increased with additional risk factors for testosterone and estrogen therapy. Transfeminine patients going on estrogen therapy may experience weight gain, thromboembolic disease (when a blood clot breaks off and blocks another blood vessel), and a high level of triglycerides in the blood.
Descanso Resort, Palm Springs' premier destination for gay men, just received Tripadvisor's highest honor, a Travelers' Choice "Best of the Best" award for 2023. Based on guests' reviews and ratings, fewer than 1% of Tripadvisor's 8 million listings around the world receive the coveted "Best of the Best" designation. Descanso ranked 12th in the top 25 small inns and hotels category in the United States. Quite an accomplishment!
Open less than two years, Descanso Resort offers gay men a relaxing and luxurious boutique hotel experience just minutes away from Palm Springs' buzziest restaurants, nightclubs, and shopping. Descanso has quickly established itself as a top destination for sophisticated gay travelers, earning hundreds of 5-star guest reviews and consistently ranking in Trapadvisor's top positions alongside brother properties Santiago Resort and Twin Palms Resort.
"Our entire team is honored to be named Best of the Best. To be the only gay men's resort recognized in the Top 1% is incredibly humbling," said Kent Taylor, General Manager at Descanso. "We appreciate Tripadvisor and we're grateful to all our guests who gave us such high marks and reviews to help us reach this achievement."
“Ranking among the Best of the Best demonstrates that you have provided exemplary experiences to those who maZer most: your guests,” said John Boris, Chief Growth Officer at Tripadvisor. “With changing expectations, continued labor shortages, and rising costs, this is no easy feat, and I am con6nually impressed with the hospitality industry’s resilience and ability to adapt.”
Santiago Resort was once again honored by Tripadvisor with a 2023 Travelers’ Choice award, placing it among the top 10% of travelers’ top reviewed des6na6ons. Twin Palms will become eligible for ranking in 2024.
Check out all the reviews, and discover more about Descanso Resort on Tripadvisor here. We have an excellent library of resort imagery available to accompany editorial and additional resources on our press page. Please contact Descanso Resort’s General Manager, Kent Taylor, at kent@descansoresort.com for further information.
About Descanso Resort
Inspired by Palm Springs’ history as a des6na6on for Hollywood stars to unwind in privacy, Descanso offers guests a casual yet modern take on the legendary style of that 6me. Created by the same hospitality team that revitalized Palm Springs’ much-loved San6ago Resort and recently launched the all-new Twin Palms Resort, the Descanso property opened in 2022 featuring 15 spacious guest rooms with custom-designed furniture, dreamy King-size beds, and luxe details. Ameni6es include continental breakfast, poolside lunch, welcome snack basket, and lots of special touches. For guests who need to stay connected, the entire property is equipped with blazing-fast Wi-Fi. Mul6-speed bikes are available for exploring the surrounding midcentury neighborhoods and public art installations. Like the Hollywood stars before them, guests at Descanso are encouraged to unwind, relax, and rest in style.
About Tripadvisor
Travelers across the globe use the Tripadvisor site and app to discover where to stay, what to do and where to eat based on guidance from those who have been there before. With more than 1 billion reviews and opinions of nearly 8 million businesses, travelers turn to Tripadvisor to find deals on accommodations, book experiences, reserve tables at delicious restaurants and discover great places nearby.