Even though we’re living in the 21st century, dating for gay people can sometimes still be more of a hassle than enjoyment. That's why most gay population turns to dating apps when they want to meet their soulmate or just have a one night stand. No matter your age, you can spice up your sexual and dating life by creating a profile on some of the following apps and maybe meet the love of your life, or the evening.

 

Zoosk

Thanks to its advance search filters and premium communication tools, Zoosk can help you build close relationships with the exact kind of men you are looking for. With over 40 million members you'll certainly get lucky and find the love you've dreamed of. As you like and swipe, Zoosk learns more about your preferences and will be able to suggest people that match your findings.

EliteSingles

If you’re an ambitious, intelligent, and commitment-oriented single guy and you’re looking for another man with similar characteristics, EliteSingles is the app for you. There you can find people with college degrees from every part of the world, who are looking for a serious relationship. No hookups, just plain serious commitments.

Scruff

If you’re a gay man on the go and you like muscles and travelling wherever need be to meet your sexy other half, then Scruff should be on your list of apps to download. It’s become known as muscular, bearded man's dating app but you can find a diverse range of men out there. With its great Venture feature, you can plan meetups and check out all the destinations your potential date went to. Are you living in Australia and you have a crush on a New Zealand man? No problem – plan a meetup right on Scruff and have your dream date realized.

Gay Cupid

When you’re a man who knows exactly what they want their significant other to look like, it’s not always easy to get that in real life. That’s why you should look for gay dating apps that can help you find your perfect match and potentially love for the rest of your life right in your country.  Don’t worry about running into fake profiles, because GayCupid weeds out fake profile flawlessly, features exhaustive search options with advanced search filters and keyword search that will make your scrolling a lot easier.

Grindr

Dating sometimes translates into looking for hookups and casual sex, and if that’s what you’re after, Grindr will be the right choice of dating app for you, Being the most established and long-running app for gay and bi men, having approximately 4.5 million daily users and matching you with men in your immediate proximity, makes it one of the most popular and user-friendly apps out there. One of the best features is showing you pictures of men within close proximity, so you don’t have to worry about crushing on a guy who’s miles away from you. If you’re from Sydney, there’s no chance you’ll be matched with someone living in Brazil for example.

Tinder

While Tinder may have had the aim of becoming a dating app, it’s now more known for its hookups. Namely, people have managed to turn Tinder into a place to find one-night-stands and regular booty calls whenever you need them. If that’s what you need from time to time, then install Tinder on your phone and start swiping.

Our Time

Senior dating isn't any easier than finding a love interest in your 30s, which is why people over 50 have their spot for seeking love and it's called OurTime. Having over 1 million members, this dating app is sure to offer you a perfect choice of single and ready to mingle men, whether you live in Australia, California, Germany or Mexico. You can now easily find romance in only a few clicks.

Match

If you’re interested in men who share the same values you do, Match will be the app of your life. Thanks to 7 quick games you can also casually flirt with men before engaging in some romantic or any kind of chat. You’ll get a 7-day free trial after which you’ll need to pay a monthly subscription.

SilverSingles

If you’re a man in your 50s and you’re looking for a reliable senior dating app, SilverSingles is just that. With its matchmaking tools and safety features, you won’t have to worry about bumping into people looking for casual hookups. You’ll be matched with senior singles with the same life experience and values, preventing you from ending up on a date with a gold digger or a cub.

Growlr

Are you a gay bear in the dating scene? Or maybe you are an older gay man looking for bears? At Growlr, you’ll find over 10 million gay men and some serious gay action by exchanging nudes, having live video calls, send and receive private instant messages.

Final thoughts

If you’re new at the online dating scene, the previously mentioned dating apps will make your life much easier. Pick the one app that’s best for your dating attitude and you’ll find men that match your criteria in a blink of an eye.

This article has been republished from Out & About Nashville, and was part of a series of first-person pieces written by the late Bobbi Williams.

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