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Go ahead — call her “Nellie”! Alison Arngrim doesn’t mind. After playing America’s original “mean girl” on the hit series Little House on the Prairie from the ’70s and ’80s, she’s completely at peace with her notorious TV past.
“I think that everyone knows someone like Nellie,” she says. “Everyone has someone like that who drives them crazy. So knowing that she always ‘gets hers’ at the end of every episode, I think people find very satisfying.”
She likewise notes that the program’s popularity spans a broad range of different people, going so far as to call it “the ultimate ‘red state-blue-state’ show.”
“Everybody — from Baptist preachers to drag queens — loves their Little House on the Prairie,” she says. “And equally. I mean, with the same kind of passion!”
This is a woman who seemed destined for fame practically from conception, considering that her father was Liberace’s manager and her mother was a top voice-over artist responsible for such classic characters as Gumby, Davey Hansen of Davey and Goliath fame, and Casper the Friendly Ghost.
“And don’t forget Sweet Polly Purebred,” Arngrim adds, referring to Underdog’s girlfriend. “That was her personal favorite!”
As a small child, she says, she was eager to perform anywhere a camera might be found, including the local grocery store.
“Back in the early ’70s, it was a novelty that we had a security camera in the supermarket,” she says. “It was in the cheese aisle, and when I discovered they had that one, I took to going to that aisle and doing my tap routine for the cameras when I was, like, 6 or 7 years old.”
Also from the start, her parents taught her to be open-minded.
“I always knew that there were gay people,” she says. “I mean, my parents hung out on Fire Island and around West Hollywood, so it wasn’t really unusual. I was a teenager before I even found out people had a problem with it.”
She even visited the very first Gay Pride Festival in Los Angeles history at just 8 years old.
“It was in Griffith Park. We were coming from the zoo and went to take a look,” Arngrim recalls. “They were selling balloons, and I had my mother buy me a Gay Pride balloon! So, yeah, I go all the way back.”
Such compassionate understanding served her especially well when Steve Tracy, who played Nellie’s husband, Percival, came forward publicly with his diagnosis of AIDS in 1986.
“This was when people didn’t do that,” explains Arngrim. “Rock Hudson really was on his death bed before he admitted he had it. Liberace was still claiming to be on the Watermelon Diet, and here was Steve going on talk shows and newspapers, saying ‘Yes, I have AIDS!’ ”
Almost immediately, his on-screen spouse found herself in what she refers to as the “Linda Evans position” (“you know, because she kissed Rock Hudson on TV!”). Given the state of public perception then, this meant a barrage of calls from the press asking whether she, too, was infected simply for sharing the screen with him.
“All this idiotic stuff,” she says. “I mean, we didn’t exchange bodily fluids on Little House on the Prairie. It wasn’t that kind of a show!”
In the media storm that followed, TV’s favorite villainess proved to be quite heroic. Resolving to find out more about this mysterious ailment, she has since become a uniquely powerful ally to the LGBT community in the ongoing fight for HIV and AIDS education and prevention.
Volunteering with AIDS Project Los Angeles, she received rigorous training that quickly had her up-to-date on the latest information regarding treatment and where to get tested. This led to speaking engagements all over the country.
“Because of the Little House connection, I was allowed into certain venues to speak about AIDS, where other people were not,” the performer-turned-advocate says. “Remember, people were completely in a state of terror — like they thought they’d catch it from just hearing about it or something. But since I was ‘the girl from Little House on the Prairie, well, that sort of made it OK then.”
Now, 20 years later, she’s still as fervent about getting the word out.
“The message hasn’t changed,” Arngrim stresses. “The virus has NOT changed how it is spread and is still doing what it’s always done. What it boils down to is, you have to believe you are worth taking precautions. You have to believe that your life is worth saving.”
Through it all, this awesome individual continues to act, now appearing in Make the Yuletide Gay, newly released on DVD from TLA Video (www.TLAvideo.com). In what may be the first “family-holiday-coming-out film” ever, Arngrim plays Heather Mancuso, whom she calls “this fabulous busy-body neighbor” of a couple whose not-quite-out son returns from college over winter break.
“She’s kind of like if Mrs. Oleson was alive today and a bit of a cougar,” says the TV Land Award winner. “I thought at any minute I was gonna announce ‘eggs were three cents less for brown.’ I mean, I actually yell ‘yoo-hoo’ at one point!”
Seeing how the characters have such similar dispositions, casting Walnut Grove’s answer to The Bad Seed seemed a perfect fit.
“Director Rob Williams told me they talked about getting someone like Nellie, and then said, ‘Why get someone like her when we could get the real deal?!’ After all,” the actress says with a laugh, “I do bring an enormous amount of experience bullying the neighbors. Having the ability to drive people crazy on film, apparently, is my field of expertise.”
Still, isn’t a gay coming-out comedy a far cry from a drama like Little House which practically epitomizes conservative family values? Not in the least.
“One of the reasons I love this movie is because it’s so sweet. I mean, my husband keeps saying it’s like a Hallmark film — but gay.”
She even suggests that watching it together might ease the way for those faced with having to reveal their sexual identity to relatives this season.
“I have a feeling that this DVD is gonna get shown at a lot of houses this Dec. 25,” she says with a wink. “There’s a lot of families where you could bring this home, show it to your parents, then when your mom is in a really good mood, say ‘guess what?’ It may be the coming out film of the century!”
Worldwide opera star Renée Fleming will perform in Kansas City on Thursday night, November 18, but the day before, she'll be part of a panel discussion for "Music and the Mind" — a conversation about how music affects the brain, cognitive development, healing and quality of life.
WHAT: Music and the Mind with Renée Fleming
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov 17, 2021
TIME: 4:00-5:30 PM
WHERE: The 1900 Building, 1900 Shawnee Mission Parkway, Mission Woods, KS, 66205
Music has a profound impact and the ability to shape 86 billion neurons in the brain for cognitive development, healing, and therapy. Science research has clearly shown that music therapy interventions can improve quality of life across nearly all neurological disorders. And there is tremendous public-interest in applying music to creative aging, childhood development, and community wellness.
But scientists want to know more.
Join soprano Renée Fleming and a distinguished panel of local Kansas City experts in neurology, music therapy, music and healing, and more for this cutting-edge discussion. Audience members will be able to participate in a Q&A following the panel discussion.
*Please note this Music and the Mind Event is not a musical performance*
As Artistic Advisor at Large to the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts, Renée Fleming has spearheaded a collaboration with the National Institutes of Health, with the participation of the National Endowment for the Arts (NEA). The Sound Health initiative explores and brings attention to research and practice at the intersection of music, health, and neuroscience. This collaboration has led to workshops at the NIH, and events and performances at the Kennedy Center. This initiative has also led the NIH to recently award $20 million dollars in funding for music and neuroscience research over five years.
As part of her advocacy, Fleming is also advisor to the recently launched NEA/UCSF Sound Health Network and co-chair of the Aspen Institute/Johns Hopkins NeuroArts Blueprint, both working to advance the field of arts and health.
This event is free and open to the public, but seating is limited. Please call the Harriman-Jewell Series at 816-415-5025 to reserve your seat.
WHAT: Renée Fleming, soprano in recital
WHEN: Thursday, Nov 18, 2021
TIME: 7:00 PM
WHERE: Helzberg Hall, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts
COST: Tickets from $25.00 *discounts available for students, educators, first responders, active duty military and veterans with valid I.D.
Pair a glorious voice with a winning personality and you have a diva for the ages. Renée Fleming is a longstanding Harriman-Jewell Series favorite. With her many television and Broadway appearances, Fleming has been embraced by music lovers of all genres.
Whether singing at the Nobel Peace Prize ceremony, the Olympics, or Queen Elizabeth’s Diamond Jubilee, Renée Fleming represents opera to the world. In addition to her numerous operatic performances, Fleming often works classic show tunes and the Great American Songbook into her recitals. Fleming’s trademark rapport with audiences will give her Kansas City performance a warmth that is personal and sincere.
Rob Ainsley is pianist for the recital. His diverse career as a musician, conductor, educator, and administrator has taken him to top organizations and colleges from coast to coast. He now serves as Director of the Washington National Opera’s Cafritz Young Artists and American Opera Initiative. Ainsley performed with Renée Fleming in The Metropolitan Opera’s August 2020 “Met Stars Live in Concert” that was streamed worldwide.
ABOUT THE HARRIMAN-JEWELL SERIES
Renée Fleming's recital will mark the 977th performance since the Series was founded in 1965. From free education events that allow interaction with musicians and dancers, to our free Discovery Concerts that are open to the community, the Harriman-Jewell Series continues to offer life-enriching opportunities for its community's youth and lifelong learners.
Whether you're spreading truth, information, or love, traveling abroad for humanitarian reasons can have risks. Detained American journalist in Myanmar, Danny Fenster, is to be released from jail, and to fly home soon. But it doesn't always end well for every foreign national attempting to do good in a foreign country.
The missionaries consisting of sixteen Americans and one Canadian kidnapped by the Haitian “400 Mawozo” gang on October 16, is extremely scary. The gang has threatened to kill the humanitarian Christians if a million dollar per person ransom is not fulfilled. The group consists of men, women, children and an eight-month-old baby.
These missionaries have sacrificed their time and paid their own way to go to the poorest place in the Western hemisphere to try to spread God’s love and save some souls. In turn, the missionaries are experiencing a nightmare like they’ve never imagined. They’re imprisoned and being threatened with a bullet in the head.
Most of us will never get over seeing journalists being beheaded and tortured in Syria and Iraq by the barbaric Islamic extremist group called ISIL. Burning people alive and beheading others were too graphic and gruesome to ever be forgotten.
Years ago, I traveled to a third world country on a “missionary trip” with others thinking it would be a nice break. I’ve never worked so hard in my life.
Sadly, the 17 missionaries in Haiti are undergoing a cruel experience that may end with the cost of their very lives. What are they thinking now? What is going through the minds of the little children who traveled to a world to help others and spread God’s love?
Haiti has been the site of years of humanitarian efforts. The United States and other countries have given billions of dollars to help Haiti. Sadly, hurricanes, political unrest, underdevelopment and extreme poverty have all made for a sad scenario.
How much money would the world have to give to Haiti to make life better for this nation? This is a question no one can answer because usually aid is a short-term solution. We spent a trillion dollars in Afghanistan and they aren’t any better off today.
Good missionary people went to Haiti with good hearts for helping others in the name of God’s love. They went to share a message they hoped would bring about change and better lives. They may now lose their lives.
Christians point to Jesus as the model for such missionary efforts. He came preaching and teaching in an effort to demonstrate and spread God’s love and it cost him plenty – his life, executed in public on a cross.
There are some Christians today who, like Jesus, are willing to risk their lives for the sake of others. Did these men and women literally go to Haiti taking their children with them truly believe they could be killed? Would they purposefully do this to their children? Who convinced these people that such a trip with small children was a good idea?
My goal here is to simply say, think about such trips to places like Haiti. Afghanistan, Iraq, Northern Nigeria and numerous others countries are not vacation spots. Foreign travel may sound exotic and adventurous but consider the possible cost.
Many missionaries and Christian workers have paid the ultimate price in order to spread the gospel of Christ. Only eternity will reveal what their selfless sacrifice has meant to those whose lives they impacted.
By chance, if you decide such an international trip is not for you, don’t feel bad. Consider helping in an American inner city, Appalachia or maybe your own neighborhood. Service at home is needed across America.
Let’s pray for the safety of these missionaries and for those negotiating their release. May God help them and all who may consider such endeavors.
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The Black Trans Fund, incubated at Groundswell Fund, and Grantmakers for Girls of Color launched the Holding a Sister Initiative, the first-ever national fund explicitly dedicated to transgender girls and gender-expansive youth of color.
Dr. Monique W. Morris, president and CEO of Grantmakers for Girls of Color, and Bré Rivera, program director of the Black Trans Fund are together spearheading the Holding a Sister Initiative to bring attention and resources to organizations supporting trans girls of color, normalize concern and investment in their success, and create learning opportunities for cis and trans girls of color to move in deeper community with one another.
The initiative will award $1 million in grants in the first year, and will ultimately engage trans girls and gender-expansive youth of color in the decision-making process for selecting grantees on an ongoing basis.
While there has been an increase in donor attention to work led by people of color, it has yet to translate into significant gains in funding for trans and gender-expansive youth of color.
According to recent regional studies in Detroit, South Florida and New Orleans, trans women of color face higher levels of hunger, homelessness, unemployment, incarceration and discrimination. At the same time, the majority of this year's record-breaking anti-trans legislation are targeted to affect youth, including bills that prevent transgender athletes from playing in school sports and the "Save Adolescents from Experimentation (SAFE) Act." Research has show sharp rises in suicide attempts among trans youth during 2020 and 2021.
"The reality is transgender and gender-expansive youth of color require more attention, and resources to interrupt the staggering intersections of trauma and crises they experience," said Bré Rivera.
The initiative joins existing funding intermediaries who have been leading the work to resource trans communities and engage trans people in the direction and distribution of resources, including the Third Wave Fund, the Black Trans Travel Fund, and Fund for Trans Generations. As funding partners, the Black Trans Fund and Grantmakers for Girls of Color aim to expand and transform philanthropy's investments in trans and gender-nonconforming youth. The initiative will move resources to organizations serving and led by trans girls and young women of color. It will also amplify narratives that elevate the humanity, dignity and leadership of trans and gender-expansive youth of color, as well as the ways their experiences and contributions have been overlooked, minimized and targeted by oppositional and systemic forces, and larger social justice movements.
The Holding a Sister Initiative will be led by a manager, who will steward culture change through grantmaking, capacity building, narrative shifting and philanthropic organizing. The position is currently open for applicants.
About Grantmakers for Girls of Color
Fiscally-sponsored by Rockefeller Philanthropy Advisors, Grantmakers for Girls of Color (G4GC) works to mobilize resources and amplify transformative organizing work to dismantle systems of oppression led by girls and gender-expansive youth of color. Grantmakers for Girls of Color openly invites partners and stakeholders to co-create an inclusive space in support of girls, young women, and gender-expansive youth of color across programmatic issues and geographic areas. Learn more by visiting Grantmakers for Girls of Color.
About the Black Trans Fund
The Black Trans Fund is a groundbreaking endeavor: the first national fund in the country dedicated to uplifting and resourcing Black trans social justice leaders. BTF seeks to address the lack of funding for Black trans communities in the U.S. through direct grantmaking, capacity building support, and funder organizing to transform philanthropy. Learn more by visiting Black Trans Fund.