<21: lgbt youth voice - The Extra Sting of Trans*phobia

To me, the difference between trans*phobia and homophobia is like the difference between oranges and apples: Both are fruits, but they’re two very different flavors, whether they are in sauces, pie, ice cream or juice.

Now, although the thought of pie and ice cream is a delicious one, the thought of homophobia and trans*phobia is not. Homophobia is common, unfortunately. In high schools, in college, in real life and in the workplace, words and phrases like that’s gay and faggot are just thrown about.

But what is the difference between trans*phobia and homophobia? It’s hard to distinguish for some people, both those who are not so involved in the gay community and those who are involved.

The point of the little asterisk in trans* is to give a chance for people to substitute it for their needs, whether the person is a transsexual woman, transgender man, or even transvestite male/female. But the difference between being homosexual and transsexual is about the body into which you were born.

Being homosexual is when you are attracted to people of the same sex, being heterosexual is being attracted to those of the opposite sex, and bisexuality is attraction to those of both sexes. But transsexual transcends just the attraction to whatever members of whatever sex.

Transsexual and transgender are terms for people who aren’t comfortable with what they were born with.

It’s a difficult idea for both trans* people and non-trans* people to grasp -- how someone could feel like they were born in the wrong body, like something is tangibly wrong with the body they were born with. It’s a harsh reality, and the struggle often requires assistance from loved ones and others. But thankfully, most trans* people discover themselves and are able to live happy trans* lives.

But back to the original question: What is the difference between homophobia and trans*phobia?

To me, the difference lies in the more physical aspect of trans*phobia.

Imagine, if you will, a post-operation male-to-female transgender person. She is leading a very successful life, perhaps as a lawyer and as a restaurant manager as a side job. Then, one day, someone notices that she is a bit more masculine than other females, and forms the idea that she may have been born biologically a man. That person makes fun of her for it to her face. All of that work she has put into feeling feminine — and wanting to feel feminine — is suddenly disrespected and insulted by someone she may not even know.

That’s the difference between homophobia and trans*phobia. The amount of work that is put into being trans* is astounding, and so is the fact that anyone could have the audacity to mock it.

When people act on their trans*phobia or their homophobia, the results are terrible forms of bullying. Neither should be practiced, of course.

But trans*phobia, to me, has so much more meaning behind it, considering how much more work it is to be a transgender person and for transgender people to fight for equality in how they are treated by society.

Austin R. is a high school student in the Kansas City metropolitan area.

WhistlePig + Alfa Romeo F1

SHOREHAM, VT (September 13, 2023) — WhistlePig Whiskey, the leaders in independent craft whiskey, and Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake are waving the checkered flag on a legend-worthy release that’s taking whiskey to G-Force levels. The Limited Edition PiggyBack Legends Series: Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is a high Rye Whiskey selected by the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake drivers, with barrels trialed in their wind tunnel to ensure a thrilling taste in every sip.

The third iteration in WhistlePig’s Single Barrel PiggyBack Legends Series, the Alfa Romeo F1 Team Stake Barrel is bottled at 96.77 proof, a nod to Valtteri Bottas’ racing number, 77, and the precision of racing. Inspired by Zhou Guanyu, the first Chinese F1 driver, this Rye Whiskey is finished with lychee and oolong tea. Herbal and floral notes of the oolong tea complement the herbaceous notes of WhistlePig’s signature PiggyBack 100% Rye, rounded out with a juicy tropical fruit finish and a touch of spice.

Keep readingShow less
by Spectrum Medical Care Center

Nurse Practitioner Ari Kravitz

When I started medical transition at 20 years old, it was very difficult to get the care I needed for hormone replacement therapy because there are very few providers trained in starting hormones for trans people, even though it’s very similar to the hormones that we prescribe to women in menopause or cisgender men with low testosterone.

I hope more providers get trained in LGBTQ+ healthcare, so they can support patients along their individual gender journey, and provide the info needed to make informed decisions about their body. I’ve personally seen my trans patients find hope and experience a better quality of life through hormone replacement therapy.

Keep readingShow less

Descanso Resort swimming pool and lounge area

Descanso Resort, Palm Springs' premier destination for gay men, just received Tripadvisor's highest honor, a Travelers' Choice "Best of the Best" award for 2023. Based on guests' reviews and ratings, fewer than 1% of Tripadvisor's 8 million listings around the world receive the coveted "Best of the Best" designation. Descanso ranked 12th in the top 25 small inns and hotels category in the United States. Quite an accomplishment!

Open less than two years, Descanso Resort offers gay men a relaxing and luxurious boutique hotel experience just minutes away from Palm Springs' buzziest restaurants, nightclubs, and shopping. Descanso has quickly established itself as a top destination for sophisticated gay travelers, earning hundreds of 5-star guest reviews and consistently ranking in Trapadvisor's top positions alongside brother properties Santiago Resort and Twin Palms Resort.

Keep readingShow less